7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think Win-Win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that it is
possible to create an atmosphere of Win-Win in every relationship. This habit
encourages the idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can
arrive at mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the
accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a
belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t
step on you, but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people
and you want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to
succeed as well. Win-Win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of
success to go around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s no
matter who gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food for
everyone. It’s an all you can eat buffet.
Win-Win always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising
benefit of thinking Win-Win id the good feelings it brings on. The true test of
whether or not you are thinking Win-Win or one of the alternatives is how you
feel. Win-Lose and Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with
negative thoughts. It will fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It
will give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-win or no deal.
Choose The Right!!!!
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